“After Nearly 3 Decades of Marriage, Akon’s Wife Tomeka Thiam Shocks Fans by Filing for Divorce Just Days Before Their 29th Anniversary — Custody, Spousal Support and Irreconcilable Differences Revealed”
In a shocking turn of events, Akon’s wife Tomeka Thiam has filed for divorce after nearly 29 years of marriage to the Grammy-nominated singer. The filing, submitted on September 11, 2025, comes just four days before the couple’s wedding anniversary, which would have marked their 29th year together.
Divorce Filing Details
Court documents reveal that Tomeka cited irreconcilable differences as the grounds for the split. She is requesting joint legal custody of their 17-year-old daughter, Journey, but is also seeking physical custody, which would allow their daughter to primarily live with her.
Additionally, Tomeka is asking for spousal support while specifically requesting that Akon not be eligible to receive any financial support from her. This detail signals that the divorce proceedings could involve a contentious financial settlement given the singer’s multimillion-dollar fortune and business ventures.
Timing and Significance
The timing of the filing is particularly striking. With the couple’s 29th anniversary approaching on September 15, many fans are stunned that Tomeka chose this moment to formally end their decades-long union. The split marks the end of a marriage that began in 1996 and endured years of public speculation, rumors, and scrutiny.
Akon’s Polygamous Lifestyle
Akon, 52, has long been candid about his polygamous relationships, stating in multiple interviews that having more than one wife is consistent with his cultural and religious background. He has also confirmed that he is the father of nine children from different women. While Tomeka has been widely regarded as his legal wife, the singer’s multiple relationships have often fueled public intrigue and speculation about the dynamics of their marriage.
For years, Tomeka has largely stayed out of the spotlight. However, she briefly made headlines when it was rumored she would join the cast of The Real Housewives of Atlanta. Now, her decision to file for divorce has reignited interest in her story and her long-standing relationship with the international star.
What Comes Next
The divorce proceedings will likely focus heavily on custody arrangements for their daughter and the specifics of spousal support. Given Akon’s expansive music career, record label ownership, and numerous entrepreneurial ventures—including Akon City, a planned futuristic city in Senegal—the financial implications could be significant.
Neither Akon nor Tomeka has issued a personal public statement yet, but the filing itself speaks volumes. For fans, the news is bittersweet: while it marks the end of one of the entertainment industry’s longest celebrity marriages, it also shines a spotlight on the challenges of balancing personal lives with global fame.
As the case moves forward, it is expected to draw continued attention not only because of Akon’s high profile, but also because it offers rare insight into the private life of an artist who has been equally known for his music and his unconventional family life.
