YouTubers Dan and Phil Confirm They’re Dating Amid Longtime Romance Rumors
After years of speculation, beloved YouTubers Dan Howell and Phil Lester have officially confirmed what many fans have long suspected: they’re dating. The internet personalities, known individually as danisnotonfire and AmazingPhil, have finally addressed their relationship status, putting an end to over a decade of rumors and whispers that swirled around their famously close friendship.
The announcement came subtly but powerfully through a joint video posted to their secondary channel, followed by heartfelt posts on X (formerly Twitter) and Instagram. Fans were quick to express overwhelming support, with hashtags like #DanAndPhil and #PhanIsReal quickly trending across platforms.
A Long-Awaited Confirmation
Dan and Phil’s relationship has been the subject of speculation since their early YouTube days in the late 2000s. Their undeniable chemistry, shared living spaces, and consistent collaborations made them one of the platform’s most iconic duos. However, both have historically been private about their romantic lives, often choosing to focus on friendship and creative partnerships in public.
In a 2019 coming-out video titled “Basically I’m Gay”, Dan opened up about his sexuality and briefly mentioned Phil as someone who had supported him deeply. However, he stopped short of confirming a relationship, instead noting, “We’re more than just housemates. And I’m sure that’s all you need to know.”
That comment only intensified fan theories — and now, years later, the truth is finally out.
“We Wanted It to Be Ours First”
In their joint announcement, the pair shared that they’ve been in a committed relationship for over 10 years and chose to keep it private to protect something deeply meaningful to them.
“We weren’t hiding. We were just protecting something special,” Phil said.
Dan added, “We wanted it to be ours first, before it belonged to the internet.”
The two also addressed the unique pressure of being public figures while navigating a queer relationship online. They expressed gratitude toward their audience for their patience and respect over the years.
Fans React with Joy
The internet exploded with joy following the announcement. Longtime fans — many of whom grew up watching Dan and Phil — flooded social media with supportive messages, fan art, and nostalgic throwbacks to their iconic YouTube moments.
One fan tweeted:
“10 years of watching them. 10 years of hoping. This is the softest, happiest news ever.”
What’s Next for Dan and Phil?
Along with the relationship news, the duo hinted at upcoming creative projects, including potential podcast content, live shows, and more personal vlogs that reflect their current lives. While they’re not planning to suddenly put their private lives front and center, they did say they feel freer and happier than ever.
Dan and Phil’s confirmation is more than just a relationship reveal — it’s a milestone for internet culture and LGBTQ+ visibility in the YouTube world. After years of building their brand on trust and authenticity, their honesty has only deepened their bond with fans.